So…how did you become a gay male escort? How much do you earn? I only ask ’cause I have been seriously considering the sex industry for a living.
Well, it all started when I was visiting my current town in LA. I had a bunch of money, wanted to go out drinking and none of my friends were down. So I posted an ad on Craigslist asking if anyone would like to go out for a night on the town with me. I did get the responses I wanted but also received an email from a guy offering to pay me 60 bucks if I slept next to him in bed and cuddled. I decided to offer more. First just massages and so on. I started offering the whole enchilada for women and some service for men. I knew there was money to be made and I found out on my own the best way to go about it. I charge 100 for a full hour.
What are your rates? Do you like what you do or is it something you did for fun and got stuck in?
I charge 100 for a full hour. Which for guys include about 30-40 min of a sensual massage and the remaining min… you know what that’s for. For women, I usually ask them what they want me to do and go from there. I really do like what I do. It was very weird and crazy at first but I have had a lot of fun, met tons of great people and made some decent money. I started doing it out of necessity and just ended up sticking with it.
Does your family know you’re a gay prostitute?
My sister and my brother do. My parents don’t know.
Could you describe a typical woman client? Are they hot?
My female clients are all very similar. Not what most would call attractive. Usually ages from 30 to 45 with very few outside that age range. They are usually larger women and some of them have definitely been a bit slow. Not retarded or anything but just a little dimmer then the average person. Nearly all are inexperienced. There have been a few that fall outside all those traits but it really is a rare occurrence. I’ve only had one client that I consider hot. Since I am gay, I also get asked a lot of questions about gay sex.
I have to ask: How do you get hard if your client is unattractive? And how do you keep going if your client is very attractive?
It’s not as hard…uhm… difficult as you’d think. Sure if you look at pictures of unattractive naked people it won’t turn you on and even if you try to imagine those people in the picture as being hot it still wouldn’t turn anyone on. But while at the moment I find it pretty easy to fantasize about other men, women or experiences. it depends on the situation or whatever works.
Have you ever worked for couples?
Yup. Both M/M and M/F couples. Not yet for F/F though my fingers are crossed. I honestly love it when couples contact me. It’s so nice to see a couple experimenting and trying some new thing to keep the passion alive. A lot of my clients are in totally sexless relationships and I always wonder if the fire could get hot again if only they talked about some new sexual experiences and acted on them.
Are you a top or a bottom?
I get asked nearly every time. Fun fact from my experience most gay men are catchers. I would say only 15 or 20 percent of the men ask me to be the bottom. The rest ask me to top them. I decline all of them of course. Obviously I don’t get the required hardness to top a man and I don’t like the feeling of anything going up my butt. Good thing there are other ways to please the fellas.
If you’re giving oral to the men, do you do that for the women, too?
Yes, I do oral and the women that want it as well. There are some that don’t want it, though most do.