A Day in the Life of a Bisexual Guy Hooker

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Starting from the beginning, I should say that my name is Dorian. And before anyone asks, no, that’s not my real name. I’ve been working as a male escort for six years now, and I loved every single second of it.

The term bisexual guy hooker is quite a mouthful (as is my job quite often), and it is a bit outdated. Today, we use terms like “male sex worker,” which sounds a lot better. I spent half of the week working as a male prostitute, while the rest is reserved for art. I paint, and I work as a designer, and both things have been my passion for as long as I could remember.

What Made You Decide to Choose This Type of Career?

I love sex. I’m good at it, and why not earn money along the way. It also allows me to do whatever I want with my life in my spare time. I no longer need to work every day of the week, which is more than relaxing.

Moreover, it allows me to paint for myself and grow as an artist. I doubt I would be able to make a living out of it since I’m not really good at it, but it makes me happy. But more importantly, it gives me extra money so I can live comfortably and not worry about rents and bills.

Did You Decide to Cater to Both Genders When You First Started?

No. It is something that keeps crossing your mind when you are bisexual, but it isn’t something that happens from the start. I remember I kept thinking about how it would allow me to have more clients, which also means more money.

Eventually, I started meeting both men and women, and it has been incredible ever since. Of course, some people believe that I’m a gay hooker, and it makes it easier for them to have that kind of exclusivity. But I enjoy both male and female clients.

It was a bit challenging at the beginning since you are inexperienced and know nothing about sex work or what clients expect. But over time, I became more comfortable in my own skin, and being a bisexual hooker can be quite profitable.

How Do Your Clients Find You, and What Does a Typical Transaction Look Like?

They either heard it from a friend, or they found the ad. Essentially, each person is different. Everyone has their own preferences, kinks, and desires. But you can find some common elements with every single person.

For example, you can spot someone with no experience from a mile away. And by experience, I mean seeing an escort. They often shy without trying to hide it, or they are trying to fake confidence and failing at it. But I can always spot someone who visits a prostitute for the first time.

As for the transaction, they know the price from the get-go. Everything needs to be settled before the fun starts, and they need to pay upfront. There are always dos and don’ts, and everyone needs to know the rules before we meet. Most commonly, clients will leave the envelope with the money, and I will count it before the “session” begins. For those I know already, the whole situation is a lot easier.

If everything goes through the agency, the client will usually pay the driver.

How Do You Prepare for a Day or Night of Service?

Preparing for my line of work is not so different than preparing for your partner in a relationship. You will take a long relaxing bath, clean every bit of your body, and similar. It also depends on the client and what they would like.

If I am meeting with a male client, the preparation also includes douching and such. But the general rule is to clean yourself and dress something pretty unless there is a specific request for the clothes or something else.

Do Your Clients Have Any Special Requests?

Yes. But not everyone is picky. The first-timers usually look and act like they want to get done with it as soon as possible. The regular ones are more likely to experiment once they get comfortable. Naturally, there are also those who I met only once and had some strange or unusual request.

The most common option request is girlfriend or boyfriend experience. If you don’t know what this is, essentially, I will get to act as someone’s boyfriend for a day or weekend. We can go to the movies, hold hands, talk, kiss, and anything else couples do. Needless to say, it ends with sex, but the point is the journey.

Some people also want to try a threesome, where the couple will call me to have fun together.

Are You Satisfied With What You Earn?

I am. It’s great. Working in the sex industry can have a lot of benefits. For example, you are more focused on your health, and you regularly test for sexually transmitted diseases. And one of the great benefits is money.

Gf/bf experience costs a lot, and it can be really pleasurable. I once had a client who wished to go the extra mile for the role-play, where we would go really slow in our “relationship.” That meant that sex was off the table until the third “date.”

Would You Have Chosen a Different Career if Given a Chance?

Probably not. I love my life. I am not ashamed to be a sex worker, and I really enjoy it. There is a lot of stigma around prostitutes and sex in general. I realize that I’m one of the fortunate people in this line of business.

There are still places around the world where people are forced into prostitution. They are drug addicts, and so on. And it is terrible. I still feel lucky that turning to prostitution was my own choice, and I wouldn’t change it for the world.

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