How to Jump-Start Your Career as a Gay Hooker
So you’ve been looking to get into the world’s oldest profession. It’s a great career on paper. But how hard is it to become a prostitute? And how hard is it to stay one?
It sounds amazing, getting paid to have sex, especially when you’re a guy. But, things change when you have to have sex more often than you’d want, and you’d have to do it with people you don’t necessarily find attractive.
However, once you get accustomed to the idea, the lifestyle can be pretty rewarding for a gay man. Just make sure that whatever you’re doing is in accordance with the law of your country. For instance, maybe you can’t sell sex with men as a male escort. But, what you can do is sell time during which the two of you can do whatever you want. That seems like a legal loophole (and it kind of is), but you need to make sure you’re not doing anything illegal.
The Difference Between a Gay Hooker and Others
Now, let’s look into the specifics of participating in gay male prostitution. Obviously, women have the easiest ride in sex work when it comes to finding customers and getting paid. It’s a bit tougher for male sex workers. Today, even more so because of social media and dating apps that offer an easy way to meet other gay men. For instance, with Grindr, you can easily find a companion for the night without paying.
What does that mean for you? Well, in the United States, gay male hookers mostly work with closeted men or those who are married. Young men rarely seek out a prostitute for hire. That way, most of your customers will be uneasy at first, and you have to work on changing their mood. But, in the long run, it can be more rewarding, as they’re sure to return multiple times.
Gay Hookers Are Versatile
When your job is having sex for money, as a gay hooker, you can be as versatile as you want. For instance, you don’t have to restrict yourself only to male clients. You can have sex with all genders! Obviously, if you’re not into women, you’ll probably need some encouragement in the shape of a pill, but you can do it if you need money. Additionally, you can also do couples, trans people, and so on.
However, don’t do it just for the sake of it. Your clients will be able to tell if you’re not enjoying yourself and are counting down the minutes until it’s all over. If you’re really against the idea of sleeping with women, simply don’t do it. But if you are into it, you can double your market.
Speaking of the market…
Get to Know Your Market
As we’ve already said, most male escorts nowadays usually deal with closeted and married men. But, you can find a niche and deal only with something that suits you. For instance, if you’re repulsed by having sex with older men, don’t do it. The chemistry between you and your client will be critical to a successful session. And if it’s hard for you to enjoy yourself, you won’t do your job well enough.
On the other hand, you can cater to straight men, couples, lesbians, etc. You might want to give it all a few goes and see what works for you. Then, settle down for a target audience and cater only to them.
Attend Different Networking and Social Events
Once you’re in the job, it’s important to get the word out. How will you find a client if nobody knows you’re offering an escort service in the first place? You see, as an escort, having sex is only one part of the job. Marketing is just as important. You need to develop a network of people who know about you and are ready to give you a call.
Various social events are a great place to meet someone new and let them know that you have a service to offer. Be open about it and do it the right way. You must pick an appropriate event where there will be interested people. Going to a childbirth class probably isn’t the right idea.
Create Online Profiles
Since everything is online nowadays, you should be too. There are various websites online that provide escort services. It would help if you made a profile on each one of them. Most people look for an escort by doing a Google search, and that’s how you’ll meet most of your clients. So, to attract a good number of customers, you should be present on as many of these websites as possible.
When creating a profile, make sure that you’re consistent with the information you’re giving out. You can even copy-paste it, but people will probably be put off by it if you put out conflicting information. So, you should be clear about what services you offer exactly. For instance, if you don’t do oral sex without protection, make sure you mention that.
When it comes to using photos, many escorts want to keep their information private. They do this by not showing their face in their photos. You can do the same because you can still get new clients who value discretion as much as you do.
Get Regular Checkups
Another important aspect of the job is your health condition. Many clients (especially new ones) will ask for some certificate that you’re free of any sexually transmitted disease.
But even without that, surely, you need to stay healthy regardless of what your clients think. When you have sex with strangers regularly, the risk of catching something is higher than usual. To avoid any problems, you should get regular checkups and possess a (public) health insurance. Most of the diseases are treatable more effectively when you find out about them early on, so get a checkup even when you’re feeling great.
Pamper Yourself Regularly
Once you’re in the job, you should take advantage of the whole lifestyle as well. Treat yourself every time you can. Obviously, you don’t want to eat a dozen donuts every day as you need to stay fit. But, make sure you’re enjoying your life. After all, you’re doing all of this to have enough money to spend on yourself.
You should always treat yourself to a vacation, buy something new, or whatever makes you happy. Sex you have while you’re not that happy about what’s going on in your life is not good sex. To be successful in this line of work, you have to be happy to be there. Pampering yourself is the way to go.
